Sensory · 6 min read
The Bonfire Night plan we make every year
Headphones on the hook, a window instead of a field, and an exit we agree on.

Written by Tessa Marlow
Autism and ADHD parent
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Sensory · 6 min read
Headphones on the hook, a window instead of a field, and an exit we agree on.
Routines · 5 min read
Dark at half past four, awake at five: what we changed in the first week.
Siblings · 4 min read
Wren and Arlo cannot share a sofa, but they can share one lump of dough.
School · 9 min read
Seven lines about Wren on a single sheet, for the day her teacher is away.
Sensory · 7 min read
How a corner of our living room was built, cheaply, over one wet weekend.
Routines · 6 min read
Which cards we use every day, which get ignored, and the one Arlo removed himself.
Siblings · 5 min read
Wren avoids every puddle, Arlo needs to find them all, and we still reach the gate.
School · 10 min read
Four small requests in an email of six lines, and what I let go of.
Sensory · 5 min read
Sunday-night clothes sorting, and the school jumper we ended up buying three times.
School · 8 min read
Shoes, bag, the walk to the gate, then home for biscuits, two days early.
Routines · 6 min read
The order we never change, and the one step Wren is allowed to swap.
Siblings · 7 min read
Arlo wants the beach at seven, Wren wants the caravan quiet. A week of taking turns.
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